Your Attraction Factor

While on a recent girl’s weekend to New York City, I was elated to have some serious people watching time. Being a classic people-watcher, I was in my glory whether the girls and I were out scouting boutiques in SOHO during the day, or out lounging, laughing and dancing at various places at night – it’s absolutely apparent how people, whoever they are, give off a distinct vibe.

Whether it was the bartender who smiled, talked, and took care of us first (who we tipped handsomely by the way), to the woman who was so rude to us when we walked into her store that we no sooner walked right out it all boils down to the fact that – all people give off a vibe either positive or negative it’s there and it can’t be hidden.

I’m sure you notice it too most of the time it’s unconscious but you know when someone is giving off a positive vibe when you just feel drawn to them, you want to learn more, you want to be in their presence and interact with them to someone who gives off a vibe that immediately makes you want to run the other way to stay away from them at all costs.

So, what is this vibe? What is it about people that we notice but can’t necessarily define it’s just something we sense?

Vibes start on the inside they aren’t something you master or can fake. Your vibe comes from how you’re feeling about yourself – and how you feel about others. It unconsciously states come closer, let’s talk, interact, engage in conversation OR it says please stay away from me, I don’t want you near me because I feel intimated, insecure, or downright angry and don’t want to interact.

Here is a Truth I want you to really consider and ponder and see how it relates to you and your own personal situation. Here it is: You attract who you are- and in order to attract and manifest what you deeply want for your business and life- you need to realize who you really are.

What does that mean you ask?

What that statement means is if you aren’t experiencing all that you desire for your life and work on the outside, then something on the inside needs to shift. You need to become aware of qualities within you that you haven’t discovered yet so you can attract all that you desire.

See, what tends to gets taught is if you want different results in your life or work you need to go