Help me; I don’t like my child’s spouse

Raising kids is tough. When they leave home it is met with bittersweet feelings of relief and sadness. Your job as a parent is over, or so we thought. Actually your job as the parent never ends, and it may actually grow tougher. What happens when your beloved child marries someone you don’t like? How do you deal with this? What happens to the holidays, what happens to your family reunions? Are your feelings supported by your wife/husband, and other relatives? Or is it just you that sees something about this new daughter or son-in-law that makes you leery? These questions must be asked and you should ponder them with great thought. To be sure there are reasons not to like your child’s spouse.

Here are a few of my own reasons I would have reservations with a new son or daughter-in-law:

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