You Suck! (Have You Ever Said That to Yourself?): How to Turn Your Lying Fraidy-Cat Inner Wizard Into a Confident Courageous Fan

Something interesting happened last week.
I noticed that I was I was trying too hard toget it right and I was feeling the pressure tomake something happen in my business.
Do you ever feel that way?

I felt like part of this was the funky energy that has been swirling around in the Universe the past few weeks, but I also recognized that I was somehow out of alignment with what I wanted to create.

How did I know this?

Because stuff kept showing up that was so not working for me and I was not getting the results that I was looking for.

Being the wise women that I am, I know that I somehow attracted these undesirable results, and it was my job to identify what was out of alignment and shift it.
And that is exactly what I did. In 3 days time I went from feeling pressured and having to make-something-happen, to feeling in the flow and kick-ass.
Do you want to know how I did it?

I looked at what was showing up that did not work for me, identified how I was resonating with it, and I re-wrote my story to reflect what I wanted to be experiencing. Within three days everything had shifted and I was once again aligned with everything kick-ass in my life.

The magic of it all is that you can do this too when you feel like you are not getting the results that you are looking for.
Let me break it down for you.

First off, you need to take a step back and take a good look at what is going on.
Whatever you are experiencing is a direct manifestation of the energy that you are embodying. Do your best to get a clear perspective on what exactly is showing up that you are not wanting. This is valuable information and will give you insight into where you are not resonating with what you want and how you can shift it.

For example, one situation that kept showing up was that people said that they wanted to work with me, but they did not have any money.
I asked myself:How am I resonating with this conversation?

When I thought about it, I realized that I was holding onto a story that said money was tight and people did not have any to spend on creating their kick-ass dream life right now. I often talked about thisreality with friends and colleges.
This story was totally out of alignment with what I wanted. Believing this story made me feel like I had to work harder and figure out a way to overcome this obstacle. It made me play a much smaller game than I wanted to play. It did not feel good to me and I felt like I had to DO something to make something happen.

In my kick-ass dream life, I help people who are already committed to going after their kick-ass dream, and they want some help navigating the obstacles. They are in-it-to-win-it and recognize the value of working with me and joyfully pay me for my services.

I needed to re-write my story and step back into the big game I wanted to play.

First , I consciously re-wrote my story to say: Everyday there are thousands of people who are investing money in their kick-ass dream life. Right now, there are hundreds of people who are on the path to living their kick-ass dream life who eagerly await the opportunity to work with me and will joyfully pay me my full fee.
Then I set out to collect evidence that people were spending money on personal growth and happiness. It went something like this:

I frequently spend money on my own personal growth and happiness.
I often meet other women who invest in themselves.

Right now there are thousands of people who invest in themselves every day.

Matter of fact, right now there are many people who would welcome the opportunity to invest their money in my services. There is a history of people doing just that.
(Now I am feeling better! )

I decide to spend some the day looking for evidence of people spending money on their happiness and living their kick-ass dream life.

I noticed the women who spend money on Zumba classes, a fancy car, shopping for new cloths, and whatever else that I can find that supports the idea that people are spending money on their kick-ass dream lives.

Soon I could feel my energy shifting and I was back in the flow.

You know what?

It worked, the next conversation I had with someone resulted in them hiring me! There was no talk about lack of money. This person is an ideal client and the whole conversation was effortless.

Where are you feeling that you are not getting the results that you want and you have to really push to make things happen?

Try re-writing your story and see what happens! Share your results down below in the comments.

If you find yourself having a hard time with this process and are ready to stop pushing so hard for the results that you desire, send me an email by clicking here, and apply for a Breakthrough Session. During this 30 minute session I will help you identify where you are getting hung up and create a clear strategy for being free of it.

You Suck! (Have You Ever Said That to Yourself?): How to Turn Your Lying Fraidy-Cat Inner Wizard Into a Confident Courageous Fan20858You Suck! (Have You Ever Said That to Yourself?): How to Turn Your Lying Fraidy-Cat Inner Wizard Into a Confident Courageous Fan

ReviewGets beyond my stuff right to my inner core-Tony Michaelides, former U2 Publicist

..tools to create positive change-Nancy Marmolejo, VivaVisibility.com

Makes a difference in your life!-Nancy Daniels, The Voice Lady-Int’l Speaker
–Back Cover(added by author)Book DescriptionAn advocate for your authentic greatness, Valery Satterwhite teaches you how to reclaim your power from your Inner Critic. She is an unrelenting advocate for the fullest expression and achievement of your unique and magnificent potential. It’s what you are here to do.Have the confidence and courage to be who youreallyare and get what youreallywant in life – no matter what anyone else thinks or says about it!
Written with a sassy and edgy expression,You Suck!is:
* A Toolkit for those exhausted from being stuck in an emotional rut.* A Guide to shift from the powerful head to empowered heart to champion your authenticity.* A Resource to reach for a better perspective.* A Manual to get out from underneath the layers of expectations and conditioning.
Author, Speaker, Consultant and Inner Wealth Expert, Valery Satterwhite launched her first book “You Suck! (Have You Ever Said That to Yourself?): How To Turn Your Lying Fraidy-Cat Inner Critic Into a Confident Courageous Fan “.If you’ve been wondering what’s really behind all your “are you kidding me?” and other “fall from grace” moments, this book will illuminate your blind spots so they’re not tripped over ever again.

Written in a sassy humorous in-your-face style, this book is a must-read life changer that will free you from the woefully misguided tyranny of the inner voice that throws up roadblocks to your deepest desires. Laced with fun true stories of the author’s challenging relationship with her own Inner Critic, Valery gives her readers a practical way to move that woefully misguided Inner Critic out of your way. You’ll discover how to tap into the other powerful voice within you that cheers you on to the fullest expression of your authentic greatness.

The prose is insightful and astonishing.This book is for anyone who wants the confidence and courage to make a change they’ve always dreamed about. It’s a wake up call to anyone who wants to finally become the master of their opportunities instead of the struggling victim of their circumstance.
BONUS: Includesa Self-Esteem Workbook to reinforce new learning and daily application.