Unfulfilled? 3 Steps to Discover and Get What You Really Want

Unfulfilled womanPeople look at you and think you’ve got it all together. You have a life that many envy, a career, relationship and the freedom to live an enjoyable life or at least two out of the three. On the outside you’ve put on a great show. On the inside, not so much.

Behind the mask, you feel empty and alone. You have a nagging sense that something is missing. You’re seeking fulfillment in all the wrong places: excessive shopping, yet another cosmetic surgical nip and tuck, over-eating, or meaningless sex. You’re complaining and blaming other people and trying to make your life as dramatic as Lindsay Lohan’s Twitter feed just so you can feel something, but nothing works.

You don’t know who you are you’re not sure you ever knew. Perhaps you worry you’ve lost touch with your real self forever. All you know is what to wear and how to act and the right way to do everything. You know how to get approval. Shape shifting enough to be accepted by your tribe used to be all that mattered to you.

You’ve twisted yourself so much that your insides look like a pretzel. The natural flow of what feeds your soul is choked to barely a trickle. The only way to nourish yourself is to realign yourself with who you are and what you want