Internet and Computer Safety

Internet and Computer Safety

  • There are hundreds of ways that computers record everything you do on the computer and on the Internet.
  • If you are in danger, please try to use a safer computer that someone abusive does not have direct access, or even remote (hacking) access to.
  • Use a safer computer. It might be safer to use a computer in a public library, at a trusted friend’s house, or at an Internet Cafe.
  • If you think your activities are being monitored, they probably are. Abusive people are often controlling and want to know your every move. You don’t need to be a computer programmer or have special skills to monitor someone’s computer activities – anyone can do it and there are many ways to monitor.
  • Computers can provide a lot of information about what you look at on the Internet, the e-mails you send, and other activities. It is not possible to delete or clear all computer “footprints”.
  • If you think you may be monitored on your home computer, you might consider no home Internet use or “safer” Internet surfing. Example: If you are planning to flee to California, don’t look at classified ads for jobs and apartments, bus tickets, etc. for California on a home computer or any computer an abuser has physical or remote access to. Use a safer computer to research an escape plan.
  • E-mail is not a safe or confidential way to talk to someone about the danger or abuse in your life. If an abuser has access to a computer, they may be able to get into your account and read your e-mail. Even if you believe your account is secure, make sure you choose a password he or she will not be able to guess. Please call National Domestic Abuse Hotline
  • If an abuser sends you threatening or harassing email messages, you can print and save them as evidence of abuse.
  • Traditional “corded” phones are more private than cellular phones or cordless phones.

 - Adapted from the Illinois Coalition against Domestic Violence

My Name is Darlene Greene, my foundation, the Ina Mae Greene
Foundation/For My Sisters, is a resource foundation for Women who are
in domestic abusive relationships. Please visit our website www.inamaegreene.com