Things to consider before you leave your abuser

If you consider leaving your abuser, think about…

1. Four places you could go if you leave your home.

2. People who might help you if you left. Think about people who will keep a bag for you. Think about people who might lend you money. Make plans for your pets.

3. Keeping change for phone calls or getting a cell phone.

4. Opening a bank account or getting a credit card in your name.

5. How you might leave. Try doing things that get you out of the house – taking out the trash, walking the family pet, or going to the store. Practice how you would leave.

6. How you could take your children with you safely. There are times when taking your children with you may put all of your lives in danger. You need to protect yourself to be able to protect your children.

7. Putting together a bag of things you use every day. Hide it where it is easy for you to get.

Call A shelter, they will go over a safty plan with you, or log on to our website and look at our safety plan. we want you safe.

My name is Darlene Greene, I am the founder of the Ina Mae Greene Foundation/For My Sisters. We are a resource foundation for domestice abuse victims. Visit our website, www.inamaegreene.com.