The Naked Lady Perspective

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Traffic accident. Four different people on four different street corners at one busy intersection witness the collision. Thankfully, no one was seriously injured and there are two people in each of the now scrunched up cars. The cops arrive to take statements from the four people involved in the accident and the four street corner onlookers.
It is no surprise that the police now have eight different versions of how the accident happened, who was to blame. The real-life equivalent of CSI will have to examine the evidence to determine the truth – which in reality is yet another perspective.

Take a look at the image presented in this article. Tacky yard tchotchke or a work of art? A whimsical abstract of a female face or a sculpture of a woman in the nude? Both perspectives are valid.

The same is true for the events in your life. You see a circumstance one way, your spouse, boss, child, BFF, whomever sees it in a completely different way. Often there are as many ‘truths’ as there are participants to any given incident. If you want to change the events in your life you have to reach for a new perspective.

Have you ever met someone who complains and complains and complains? The people who complain all the time don’t realize that they spend most of their day looking for more things to b*tch about. They view life from the lens of “life sucks”. Doubt and fear distorts how things are observed. Another person with very similar circumstances will be as challenged, yet their ‘lens’ is clear with no schmutz to spoil the view. Even in struggle they are excited about the bounty of opportunity that they see is available in the same, or similar, experience!

If you don’t like what’s going on in your life reach for a new perspective. How else could this happening be viewed? What’s another way to think about your situation? Zoom out, zoom in. Look at the occasions of your life, the conversations you have with others, the meanings and assumptions you’ve attached to outcomes. What else could be going on here? You do not know what you do not know. What additional viewpoints are possible? Which one will get you closer to what you want to get out of life? Tap into that perspective and you are well on your way. That’s Moxie!

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